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post #18 of (permalink) Old 07-29-2018, 05:58 PM
xj6response
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If it takes that much work, energy and heartache before you are even married, you can be assured all of that will only increase once you are married. Is that even possible to do? If it's that hard now, well, life is just too short for the headwinds you will face in this situation. Marriage, the really good kind, is not borne of desperation or need. It comes out of the kind of love that is willing to put aside some of yourself to make room for another person, forever, no matter what life throws at you. Against such a backdrop, your description of this situation is a bit unnerving.

And for the record, sisters often have very good insights into these things. Mine did.

Find a trail, Trekker, into the cool sub-alpine.

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